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Samantha Edmonds   With words Be reckless. Give the stranger everything: words, promises, attention, adoration, secrets, sex. Recognize afterwards that he was always going to leave. Feel mature. Feel grown. Tell yourself it—he—the experience—something—was worth...

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Samantha Edmonds   A normal life Finish your career as an undergrad. Expect an engagement ring for a graduation present. You are not mistaken. Pretend not to know what’s happening when the golden-eyed boy takes you to a fancy restaurant, the one in the city that...

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Samantha Edmonds   To Fill Fall in love with a boy with golden eyes your freshman year at university. He is patient, notices you first, and thinks you’re worth the wait. Don’t sleep with him. Unless you are fighting, which you rarely ever do, never write about...

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Samantha Edmonds   To be a writer Grow up, slowly and without noticing. Your mom is your best friend. Pick a school close to her. She will ask you to live at home. Shake your head, but cry when she drops you off on your first day. Call her the first night, in...

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Samantha Edmonds   To try something (good lord, anything) else Grow up, slowly and without noticing. Your mom is your best friend. Pick a school close to her. She will ask you to live at home. Shake your head, but cry when she drops you off on your first day....